Moving in Together: Tips to Combine Two Households

Moving in togetherBy Julie DeLong, A-1 Freeman Moving Group 

Deciding to move in together is a huge step. It can be one that must not be taken flippantly (or completed without a great deal of consideration). The two of you have to sit down to discuss everything prior to when they take that leap. As a professional moving company in Tulsa, we understand that even with a plan, it's actually not a simple task to combine two households into one.

Here are some ideas to assist you to both prepare for the next phase.

Make sure that it is the right time. The fact is, there isn't any timeline that states when the best time is for a couple to move in together. It all depends on how both parties are feeling. Both of you must be on a comparable page prior to when you merge your homes.

Figure out the place where you want to live. While it's simpler to move into one person's residence, for a lot of couples, it is advisable to start from scratch in a new location. Doing this, it will always seem like home to the two of you, as opposed to his (or her) apartment.

If you do elect to move into one person's abode, will the other person be confident enough to make changes? Anytime an individual moves into the other person's abode, they may want to make it feel much more like their abode by bringing in their unique household furniture and moving a couple of things around to create a place for their belongings. The other individual has to be capable to sacrifice and allow the other one to make these modifications so both people will be satisfied in their new house.

Don't hurry when sorting through your things. When combining two households, you will have plenty of things for the new (or existing home). You are probably going to have not one but two beds, a couple of couches, and a lot of blankets. You'll likely both have kitchen and bathroom stuff.

You do not have to have double of all things in your new spot, which means you are going to need to plod through everything to figure out what you are going to keep and what you intend to sell or give away. Various sentimental pieces will have to stay nevertheless you could wrestle to decide what furnishings you need to keep. You may have to make that decision based on which one is in better shape or even which one will integrate into your home better.

You need not be reluctant to look into storage. Should you be really unable to choose what to keep and get rid of, you may want to lease a storage locker for the moment. This might also be helpful if you are considering moving into a larger home in the longer term. You could need the extra bed for company when you find yourself all set to purchase your next residence. You may want to keep a few of your sentimental items in storage until you've got your man cave or she shack.

Talk about money affairs early. It is advisable to take a look at finances before you decide to move in together. You may want to get a joint checking account so you can work together to pay for the bills.

However, it could work better if you split up the bills, letting one person take care of the rent, while the other covers the electricity, water, along with other bills. You both need to be comfortable with how you will pay for your expenses prior to taking the next step.

Before you decide to move in together, you need to take the time and really discuss it. You need to make sure that it's the right time for both of you. You also need to determine if you are going to reside in one person's residence or commence fresh with your new residence. Then, you need to go through your things. Locate a moving company in Tulsa to assist and rent a storage locker in case you are struggling with whose stuff to keep.

At A-1 Freeman Moving Group in Tulsa, we know how hard moving can be and we intend to make this change easier for you. Whether you're moving across town or someplace entirely new, let us do the hard work. We'd be glad to ensure that everything that you decide to move makes it to your new residence in perfect condition.

 

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